From their care to our care

As a fully qualified tutor in funeral directing and embalming, Clive was pleased to welcome medical students Enam and Aasiyah who are both in their 2nd year of training at Leeds University, to gain an insight into his work with Kenyon International Emergency Services where Clive is an associate member helping in the aftermath of disasters, and to learn how deceased are looked after once in our care.

Marsden Moor Fire

On the evening of February 26th the sky was lit up by the raging fire on Marsden Moor, close to our premises. Over forty fire fighters were deployed and the fire covered the space of over 280 football pitches. It took over 12 hours for the fire to be extinguished, lucky there were no casualties.

The video above recorded by Clive was used all over the world by various news channels.

Its Panto Time Again

We were pleased to support the Yorkshire Avalanche Dodgers in their panto production of Riot at St. Trinnyun’s. The show was written by local actor and author Maeve Larkin. As always great fun was had by the audience and cast.

Funeral Traditions from around the world

In Madagascar they have a famous ritual called “famadihana” which means “turning of the bones”. Every five or seven years, family members gather at the family crypt. Live music is played whilst family members exhume the bones, they are then wrapped in cloth and sprayed with wine or perfume. Family members dance with the bones giving them a chance to pass family news onto their loved ones and asking for the bones to be blessed.

The Benguet of the North Western Philippines have an interesting funeral tradition. The deceased is dressed in their best clothes, blind folded and a lit cigarette placed in their lips and placed next the main entrance next to the house. A traditional burial into the ground then takes place a few days later. Whereas, their neighbours who live in Manila bury their dead in a hollowed-out tree trunk. If they know they’re going to die they are able to select the tree where they are eventually entombed.

Moving on to Tibet, the Vajrayana Buddhists believe in the transmigration of spirits after death. Whilst the body is only an empty vessel, the soul moves onto another world. To return the body to earth, it is chopped into pieces and placed on a mountain top, exposing it to all the elements including vultures. Eighty percent of Tibetans still use this method know as the Sky burial.

Finally, when a loved one dies in Aboriginal society in Australia’s Northern Territory, elaborate rituals are held. A smoking ceremony takes place to drive away the sprit, followed by a grand feast where mourners are painted ochre (a rust colour) as they celebrate by dancing and eating food. The body is then placed on top of a platform, covered in leaves and left to naturally decompose.

All round the world strong historical traditions, some which go back hundreds of years are still upheld just as they are in the United Kingdom. Whilst funerals have changed in the UK over the last 20 years, people still opt for the traditional funeral ceremony including use of Victorian horses and solid oak coffin.

Is your Funeral Director Licenced

People are always surprised to hear that not all Funeral Directors are qualified, nor do they have a license to practice. There is no legislation in place at the moment, although those of us who are qualified are always pushing to get the government to put something in place to change this.

You wouldn’t choose to have an operation by a doctor who was not qualified, yet many families leave their loved ones in the care of an unqualified Funeral Director, as they wrongly think that all Funeral Directors must be qualified.

The British Institute of Funeral Directors (BIFD) is an educational institute offering the highest qualification a Funeral Director can achieve. Once qualified with ongoing education, an annual licence to practice can be obtained.

When choosing a Funeral Director look out for the BIFD LOGO (pictured above) so that you can be safe in the knowledge that your loved one is in the best possible care.